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Why We Choose to Sit in Toxic Energy (Yep, CHOOSE)... and How Owning That Truth Can Set You Free Jul 25, 2025

Hey Friends,

Let’s have a real moment. Like, drop-the-curtain, no-spiritual-fluff moment. Why do we—especially the healers, the empaths, the “I feel everything all the time” crew—keep sitting in toxic energy like it’s a damn recliner with our name stitched into it?

For real.

We know it doesn’t fe...

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Behind the Facade: The Sacred Truth of Being Real Jun 30, 2025

There’s a moment—maybe you’ve felt it—where someone asks how you are, and without thinking, you smile and say, “I’m good!” But deep inside, you’re most definitely not!  Maybe you’re tired. Maybe you’re furious. Maybe you’re just trying to hold it together for one more day.  I feel personally like I ...

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Perspective and Understanding May 31, 2025

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about how we see the world—not just what we see, but how we see it. Human perspective is such a powerful thing. It's like a lens we each carry, shaped by everything we've lived through—our childhoods, our beliefs, our fears, our wins and losses. And because each of u...

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Personal Happiness & Healing Oct 01, 2024
Where to begin......at the beginning I suppose, once upon a time I was happy.  Hard stop.  Today I don't want to discuss when I was happy and whether or not I am right now.  I want to discuss the emotions that have been rising up through the court process that we are currently going through with Rya...
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I feel the radiance of joy through my whole being... Jul 01, 2024

"I feel the radiance of joy through my whole being. I feel the joy of being who I am, here and now". The Angel of Joy

 
One of the greatest lessons that I am learning right now through the crossing of Ryan is that I no longer want to just sit by the wayside and watch things happen! If you follow H...
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Well here we are.... Jun 01, 2024
Well here we are.  June 2023 my life, my family's lives, and many friends etc. lives changed.  And not for the better.  But I do not want to sit in sadness as I write this.  The sadness will always be there but I am choosing to write a short and sweet piece. 
 
Do all the things.
Love with abando...
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Loyalty Out Values Everything Apr 26, 2024
As time creeps closer to Ryan's 1 year of being taken away, I find that my heart hurts more often, and that my eyes fill with tears more easily.  I don't know how to be better or even do better.  I don't think it will literally matter one bit when they get arrested and I know that they will.  I feel...
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Healing is Not Just a Moment but a Journey. Mar 29, 2024
I was thinking the other day about what Healing really means.  In the Spiritual Community, we are always talking about healing and how to incorporate it into our lives.  For some, it is so much easier than for others.  And there is so much that we need to take into consideration about individual hea...
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New Year - New Thoughts Dec 31, 2023
I need this year to end.  I really do.  I am done with the thoughts that repeat over and over and although I know they won't go away and I am still processing, I really feel that if I look upon 2024 as NEW, I can cultivate new energy moving forward regarding not only Ryan and what has happened but i...
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We all do it differently. Aug 31, 2023
It is without a shadow of a doubt that I have discovered just how powerful words can be.  How a simple word can bring tears.  A sentence can fill you with hope.  It's odd that as a Spiritual Being, as someone who teaches the importance of the words that we use, I cannot find words to explain the emo...
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Do NOT Take Anything For Granted. Jul 31, 2023
This is a blog that will be short and to the point.  Some of you may not be aware but on June 29th our family lost one of the most precious gifts that we have ever received.  Our son Ryan was taken away from us so suddenly and has left an emptiness that I cannot put into words.  Tears yes, words no....
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